My mom sent me this….and in light of my life since November….I think it might just apply to me. Also just a side note that you will understand after having read this….”Tis so sweet” is one of my favorite songs I sing it all the time.

Tried and True
Betsy Childs

I’ve often been asked the question, “Why does God test us?” This is a natural thing to ask, whether prompted by the biblical story of Abraham and Isaac or a personal test facing the questioner. “Doesn’t God know everything already?” we wonder. “If so, why would He need to test us?” Consider, first of all, that when God tests us, it is not for the purposes of his own knowledge, but for our knowledge and the knowledge of the one whom the Bible refers to as “the Accuser of the brethren.”

We see this in the book of Job; Satan accused Job of only serving God because God allowed him to prosper. God removed the hedge of protection He had put around Job to prove his accuser wrong. After the test, not only did Satan know that Job’s faith was grounded in more than God’s blessing, Job knew it also.

The testing of God became more understandable to me when I realized that one of the synonyms for “to test” is “to prove.” God doesn’t test us to see if we will fail. He tests us when He knows that we can succeed; He tests us in order to prove us. Imagine that you’ve built a table. As you show your handiwork to your friend, he casts doubt on the sturdiness of the table. You know that the table is sturdy because you made it. To prove it to your friend, you sit on top of it, demonstrating that it can hold your weight. You are not testing the table because you have a question about its sturdiness; rather, you are testing it to prove its sturdiness to the doubter.

Still, sometimes it is hard to see where the kindness of God fits into his testing. I believe the key to this is understanding that any time God tests us, He is issuing an invitation for us to test Him. God doesn’t want us to try to weather life’s trials in our own strength. A prime example of this is the test Paul and his companions experienced in Asia. As he describes it, “We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead. He has delivered us from such a deadly peril, and he will deliver us” (2 Corinthians 1:8b-10).

In other words, they came to a test, felt that their strength would fail, and were compelled to rely upon God. And God proved Himself equal to their need. Here is another promise God gives for any test we face: “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it” (1 Corinthians 10:13).
This doesn’t mean that when we feel like we can’t bear a temptation, God must be giving us the go-ahead. It means that when temptation threatens to overcome us, we must test God by looking for the way out that He has provided. It will always be there if we look for it.

The words of the familiar hymn “‘Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus” were written by a woman named Louisa Stead. Stead and her four-year old daughter lost their husband and father when he drowned off Long Island trying to rescue a little boy. Years after this severe trial, Louisa Stead recognized that God was the one who had repeatedly passed the test by being faithful to her; she was able to write, “Jesus, Jesus, how I trust him/ How I’ve proved him o’er and o’er.” If, when we are tested, we respond by testing and proving the faithfulness of God, taking Him at his word, we will be able to say confidently with Job, “When he has tested me, I will come forth as gold.”